Respect everyone's sentiments

I seriously don't get this that y parents say that "we will end our lives if u marry d person u want and not we want"....I mean do they think that there childrens don't luv them or do they think that they luv them so much that if they threatens them then they would left with no other option instead of doing what their parents want them to do. And not only the parents now a days childrens also do this with their parents but the case is just they know that how much their parents luv them. The reason behind y parents do so is  just that they have been living in a society from no of yrs since we came in their life, and that bond from the society they develop means so much more for them then the happiness of their own children, or also they worry about what if the person their childrens have choosen will not be able to let their childrens happy in long run and y d youth do so?? Well the answer lies by you urself. Its just the thing that today most of the youth is so concern about themselves and their passion and their love so they left their parents far behind from themselves and honestly parents too not try to change their way of thinking with the changing generation, and which let them to go out and find someone of their level of thinking and understands them completely which the parents couldn't according to them and tha's what make their bonds strong with another person which then make them fall in love with that other person and that's y they who(parents) dont try to fill the generation gap faces the situation more promptly. And the result of this threat that "l will do something to myself and all always proves to be a game winning trick" as after listening to this everyone will only do what the person who is threatening them wants them to do. What the person who is threatening need to understand is that this whole world is just hungry for love and from wherever it comes to the person it grabs that love. If any youth is threatening u then just love the person so much that he or she don't let u in this situation to either choose their lyf or their love, and if any parent or aged person from ur family is threatening you then love them so much  that they could trust u that any other person u will choose for urself will be worth enough to not to care about society and what people think of it. And on an all I would just like to say that everyone whether the parents or the childrens should respect the feelings of each other and just take decisions without hurting any others sentiments and letting themselves in the situation of being threatened by their loved ones.