Controlling ur feelings towards the person you love so much, just because the person is of someone else now is so difficult. Hi! I m Charu, here with another bolg.
I know its so difficult for us to control those feelings that was once there, that makes us feel so beautiful inside out, that makes us feel confident to achieve everything we dream of. It becomes more difficult when that person do show you their love towards you, do every little thng possible to just get that one freaking smile on your face, makes you feel that you are so special to them, makes you feel that you are their priority, even though they have many priorities but they dnt let u feel that you are not their priority, cheers you out whenever you are upset and in pain, always be there by your side whenever you needed them. But when the phase comes that you came to know that you cnt be together anymore, because that person's marriage is fixed with someone else and that the person is now going to be someone else's partner, the same "that someone" who makes you feel special, who makes you feel confident to achieve everything, who makes you feel important in his/her life, who makes you feel beautiful. It seems lyk everything is finished, and the world has just ends here. But then your heart yells, "hey listen its not like that, if that person is going then let them go. You just need to sit and relax, listen to some music and think were you wrong at any point, were you not loyal, were you not in love?" Then the soul replies," No I was not wrong, no I was loyal, and yes I loved him/her, and still I do love him/her." Then the heart says " if you still love that person then let them live their lyf, you live yours. Life is beautiful, and so you are, dnt let ur confidence down for just because you cnt stay forever with that person you love." Now you decide to never ever talk to that person not because you hate them, but because you love yourself and for your inner peace, its necessary for you to not to talk to that person. Because now their every delay in reply will makes u feel frustrated, that will makes u feel like u were nothing to them and that they have faken everything. So to avoid this all negativity its better to stop talking to that person. Its difficult to do I know but for yourself you have to do this.
All I want to say that I know its difficult to control all that feelings towards someone you are in love with, but for your mental and inner peace you have to control them. And its easy, try to keep urself busy for the whole day, make new goals, set plans to achieve those goals, meet old frnds, try to indulge urself in family as much as you can, just treat yourself as your own bf or gf. They have moved on ib their life so stop thinking about them that they might be happy or not, they may be or they can be, its you for the time being to be happy now and forever. Keep that in mind no one cares nobody in this world, except you urself and of course your dear ones.
