Modern way of betrayal

Kya hum kbhi yeh samjh paege ki pyr kya h

Kya hum kbhi yeh accept kr paege ki haa hume pyr h

Aur kya hum kbhi himmat juta paege apne parents se bolne ki, ki haa hum inse pyr krte h aur shadi krna chate h,

Yeh ajkal bht common h ki log pyr toh kr lete h,pr use nibhate nhi h. Ajkal girls ko influence krna bht easy ho gya h do chaar aasun giraoo, unse pyr bhri lines jinhe pick up lines khte h use kro, thodi genuineness dikhao phr kya, ldki kr leti h trust, phr strt me bht ache bn jao taki woh ldki pgl ho jaye tumhare pyr me, ab strt hoga inka asli khel, agr tum mjhse pyr krti ho toh u hv to sleep with me, vrna m smjhuga ki tum mjhse pyr nhi krti, ldki pighl jati h dar jati h ki agr yeh chla gya toh mera kya hoga, isliye kuki tb tk ldki pgl ho chuki hoti h na us ldke ke pyr me, toh woh whi krti h jo woh ldka usse krwata h......bs jo ldke ko chahiye tha mil gya use, now tym for sm modern twist, ajkl iske baad yeh hota h ki ldka chodkr nhi jata h, woh rhta h tumhare sth, dheere dheere woh tumhare samne khudko hlpless show krega, off sa rhega, puchne pr rone lgega, bolega m tumse bht pyr krta hu yr pr meri family hmare liye nhi maan rhi, mje threat kr rhi h meri maa ki m khudko kch kr lugi,😭😭😭😭 bs ladki use himmt bndhati h aur bolti h, tum chinta mt kro shyd hmara sth yhi tk tha, koi baat nhi tum apni family ki suno, m sambhal lugi khud ko 😭😭😭 aur rote huve wha se chli jati h.....the thng here whch now a days grls need to understand is dat, he made a big fool of you, he used ur body without any force nd also without marrying u, nd also he dumped u.....

Try to understand grls its a modern way to use nd throw grls, jst thnk when they want to use you that tym they were sure that they will make their family agree for you, and as soon as the time to take stand for u came, they denied with fake tears in their eyes, though real in urs. Its time to make a smart move girls, its jst smart way to rape a girl with her consent.
Well this is not only for girls, boys do suffer in today's world, boys too are sensitive, boys too have emotions, they too fell in true love, they too get betrayed by someone, so all this is for boys also stay aware from way too smart girls.

So everyone just trust the person but be a little smart too, its necessary to live in today's world.

Controlling your feelings towards one you love

Controlling ur feelings towards the person you love so much, just because the person is of someone else now is so difficult. Hi! I m Charu, here with another bolg. 

I know its so difficult for us to control those feelings that was once there, that makes us feel so beautiful inside out, that makes us feel confident to achieve everything we dream of. It becomes more difficult when that person do show you their love towards you, do every little thng possible to just get that one freaking smile on your face, makes you feel that you are so special to them, makes you feel that you are their priority, even though they have many priorities but they dnt let u feel that you are not their priority, cheers you out whenever you are upset and in pain, always be there by your side whenever you needed them. But when the phase comes that you came to know that you cnt be together anymore, because that person's marriage is fixed with someone else and that the person is now going to be someone else's partner, the same "that someone" who makes you feel special,  who makes you feel confident to achieve everything, who makes you feel important in his/her life, who makes you feel beautiful. It seems lyk everything is finished, and the world has just ends here. But then your heart yells, "hey listen its not like that, if that person is going then let them go. You just need to sit and relax, listen to some music and think were you wrong at any point, were you not loyal, were you not in love?" Then the soul replies," No I was not wrong, no I was loyal, and yes I loved him/her, and still I do love him/her." Then the heart says " if you still love that person then let them live their lyf, you live yours. Life is beautiful, and so you are, dnt let ur confidence down for just because you cnt stay forever with that person you love." Now you decide to never ever talk to that person not because you hate them, but because you love yourself and for your inner peace, its necessary for you to not to talk to that person. Because now their every delay in reply will makes u feel frustrated, that will makes u feel like u were nothing to them and that they have faken everything. So to avoid this all negativity its better to stop talking to that person. Its difficult to do I know but for yourself you have to do this.

All I want to say that I know its difficult to control all that feelings towards someone you are in love with, but for your mental and inner peace you have to control them. And its easy, try to keep urself busy for the whole day, make new goals, set plans to achieve those goals, meet old frnds, try to indulge urself in family as much as you can, just treat yourself as your own bf or gf. They have moved on ib their life so stop thinking about them that they might be happy or not, they may be or they can be, its you for the time being to be happy now and forever. Keep that in mind no one cares nobody in this world, except you urself and of course your dear ones.

Destiny has its plan

Hello guys, how u all r doing?

I am here today with a story abt  a grl and a boy madly in love with each other but things hppnd and they have  to be apart from each other...sad but true. So let's strt.

There is a grl named Preeti and a guy named Akash. They meet online. Lyk it was a selfie competition Preeti had taken part in and Akash had voted for Preeti in that competition, from there was their story began. Then aftr voted for her he texted her on instagram, she almost got confused whether to rply or not, as she was thnkng dat if she didn't rply then might  he takes his vote back and will give it to another grl, thats drive her to talk to him. In fact she decided to talk him if he will be a gud guy, if he will not supposed to be then she will block her. But destiny has its plan, they started talking, they soon became frnds and thn best frnds too. They were used to of talking with each other daily, it was just lyk a part of their daily routine. Akash was a very great guy actually, which  Preeti hadn't thnk would be. Soon he became that person she shares everything with, evn a lill prob or anything, she also has one best frnd of her Ragini, he just became lyk Ragini to her. She introduced both Ragini and Akash. They also became frnds. Preeti was closed to Ragini only, but now she was closed to both Ragini and Akash. Now the twist came Akash and Preeti was aware of the fact that there parents will not become agree for them to get married and live together, despite the fact they started lyking each other, although they were clear that they dnt knw abt future but whatever will hppn they will remain together lyk frnds always. Slowly and slowly their bonding was getting more stronger by the tym. Preeti's thnkng was different, she thnks dat everything has its tym although she knews that they have agreed upon tha fact that there cnnt be any future, she was waiting for the day that may be one day will come when Akash will say that no we will talk to our parents and when he will of the same thought of marrying Preeti and to live his whole lyf with her. And guess wat yeah dat day came, Akash wanted to marry her, and spent every single moment of his lyf with Preeti. So finally they were both in luv. It was just lyk "na na krte pyr hum kr gye kr gye kr gye" (famous song of Ashwarya roy bacchan) for them.

But lyk every luv story is full of drama, here also was there. Akash's mum  was already searching for a suitable match for her son, was unaware of her son's relationship with Preeti. One day Akash talked to her mum abt Preeti but her mum refuses, becoz a big problem was there dat is "CASTE PROBLEM". They actually belongs to two different caste. 

My question on dat people, till wen we will continue with this caste creep, as we all say this shit daily that we r living in a modern INDIA, really is this wat modern INDIA is? Well not only his mother but also Preeti's father thinks the same way. Pooh Akash and Preeti were aware of the fact but wasn't ready to face the situation. Akash said to Preeti let me talk to your father but the tym Preeti refuses becoz she was nt in the condition that tym, that she can even tell abt Akash to her father. Akash said her for abt many tyms but she refuses. Pooh Preeti was unaware dat they both are going to be apart.

One day Akash told her that he has went to see a girl with her mother, and this tym the girl side was seems to be ready for Akash as groom for their grl. When this news get confirmed it just shattered Preeti, she was feeling betrayed by Akash but the same tym she was of the thoughts that no it was her who refuses evrytym wenever he told to talk to her father. She was jst lyk in depression, sometimes she was feeling hppy just aftr the other moment she started crying, she felt betrayed, she felt cheated, she felt that he didn't kept his promises and is lefting her all alone, but the fact was no he wasn't leaving her all alone. He always want to be with her as whatever he could be, though as a frnd. She fought with so many emotions daily, which turned as a storm inside her. She felt depressed at tyms. She told everything to Ragini, she also get shattered, she talked to Akash frstly she was polite, trying to convince him for marrying Preeti and not that other grl, to talk to his mother and Preeti's father, but wen everything was of no means, she cursed him so mch. Even Preeti make Akash heard so bad things, so so so bad and making sound Akash as just a mean person, though he was not. She sometimes thnks dat no he cnt be fake, dat evry moment cnt be fake, his genuineness cnt be fake, his genuineness was the thng that makes her calm. Yeah they both were heartbroken, but  even though Akash was so understanding towards her, he just kept listening evrytym without even saying a singel word in reply,that too drive Preeti to believe him once agn, and to understand his situation. She decided to stay calm, talk to him as long as possible, but now they dnt hv any name of their relationship, its just they care for each other, they wants to see each other hppy frevr, and yes Akash was successful to kept his promise of being together whatever hppns though as frnds, and also let Preeti not to break the promise. Yeah now aftr almost one month everything was lyk normal b/w them, yeah they still luv each other but now had a deal with the situation.

What I learned from this story and my past experiences that wen u luv someone then we all say this that we will try to console our family and if they dnt then we will do wat they want us to do. U knw nvr evr say ""if they dnt agree", u knw y becoz we have this second thought then we can nvr make hppn that frst one. If u luv someone be certain on the way, and just thnk that we will have ti console them and we will. In Preeti and Akash's case the thngs were different, Preeti realise it aftrwards that she once could have tried to talk to her father, but the tym doesn't wait for anyone. So guys stay blessed, and luv everyone, stay understandable towards ur partner. Becoz destiny has its plan for you already, so just follow watevr is hppng with a cool mind and accept watevr is cmng ur way, all I want to say is.

Respect everyone's sentiments

I seriously don't get this that y parents say that "we will end our lives if u marry d person u want and not we want"....I mean do they think that there childrens don't luv them or do they think that they luv them so much that if they threatens them then they would left with no other option instead of doing what their parents want them to do. And not only the parents now a days childrens also do this with their parents but the case is just they know that how much their parents luv them. The reason behind y parents do so is  just that they have been living in a society from no of yrs since we came in their life, and that bond from the society they develop means so much more for them then the happiness of their own children, or also they worry about what if the person their childrens have choosen will not be able to let their childrens happy in long run and y d youth do so?? Well the answer lies by you urself. Its just the thing that today most of the youth is so concern about themselves and their passion and their love so they left their parents far behind from themselves and honestly parents too not try to change their way of thinking with the changing generation, and which let them to go out and find someone of their level of thinking and understands them completely which the parents couldn't according to them and tha's what make their bonds strong with another person which then make them fall in love with that other person and that's y they who(parents) dont try to fill the generation gap faces the situation more promptly. And the result of this threat that "l will do something to myself and all always proves to be a game winning trick" as after listening to this everyone will only do what the person who is threatening them wants them to do. What the person who is threatening need to understand is that this whole world is just hungry for love and from wherever it comes to the person it grabs that love. If any youth is threatening u then just love the person so much that he or she don't let u in this situation to either choose their lyf or their love, and if any parent or aged person from ur family is threatening you then love them so much  that they could trust u that any other person u will choose for urself will be worth enough to not to care about society and what people think of it. And on an all I would just like to say that everyone whether the parents or the childrens should respect the feelings of each other and just take decisions without hurting any others sentiments and letting themselves in the situation of being threatened by their loved ones.

Relationships at early age gud or not?

Hey guys hws u all...hope you all r gud😊😊....

All of us know in today's world that even 8th class students have their bf and gf😂😂😂....but honestly this is not a joke....we shuld understand their feelings and shuld guide them that this is not their age of having relationships and all....we shuld giude them through our experiences, I mean I believe that evry one who is reading it out there have their experiences of being in a relationship....some bitter some gud...some unforgivable and some unforgettable....if they experience this thing at early stage so yeah they will make them mature but honestly some students and childrens might get depressed by this and they can do anything that can harm them or even can take their lives out of them....For stopping this we shuld have to be a gud frnd pf our evry small sibling or evry small child we know, so that they cam share wat they r feeling and on the basis  of which we can guide them...I hope you all will understand this thing...becoz I have seen parents from whom their childrens do fear to tell the truth abt their relationships...and becoz of which they go through a vry touching hrtbrk, some handel that but many suffer from depression that may cause them to suicide.....I m nt saying that tell ur children to leave them or what, just make them understand this things by ur luv and tell them abt ur stories....tell them to make their career first and not to become a emotional fool. Love is a vry gud feeling but if experienced at the ryt age and ryt tym, but also can be dangerous if it becomes ur madness. So take care of your childrens and ur siblings all I want to say is. All I want to say that luv ur childrens that mch that they dnt hv to go outside for seeking luv, wen a child dnt get luv in his or her home then only he or she develop an influencing nature dats nt gud in today's world.

Emotions

EMOTIONS are so powerful u know, crying, laughing ,hate, luv, anger, calmness everything is emotion. They play a very important part in our lyf. They either can make a person strong or weak. My favorite emotion is love😍😍, I knw most of you have loved someone somewhere at sometime, some relationships worked while some not, but the best part is you always got to learn something from every relation that broke. And it makes you more understandable and mature.

Love is the most beautiful emotion out of all. It makes u happy, it also makes you cry but at the same time it makes you laugh, it also makes you strong enough to take a stand for your love. But you can only be strong enough to take a stand if your partner is with you no matter what. It feels so good when someone continuously makes you feel special at every single second of your lyf, when someone continuously makes you feel that you are so important to him/her, it's awesome how someone care about you the most in the world, and when someone understands you so deeply that no one can and no one could ever, when someone promises to be there in every worst situation and not only promise you but also fulfill it, it's awesome how when has so many of work to do still when u ask that if the person is busy then he/she replies not for you😍😍 this answer😍😍.  I feel luv is such a beautiful feeling that every one wants to be loved by someone to the fullest. And once a lifetime every one should take experience of this feeling.❤❤❤❤

Be a strong person

I knw hw it feels when u see a sad part in daily soap nd it relates to u so mch...i also feel worst wen i see sad part...bt u knw wat d bst part of it is dat it has gone...nd i knw it will nvr cm back becoz the tym has made me so strong dat i cn nw handel evry situation of my lyf...lyf is a name of ups and downs only u cn decide either u want to rise with ups or wanna lose urself with downs....by the way a strong person will choose to rise up😉😉☺....never let urself down with the bad things dat hppns to u either it is a heartbreak or it is a failure in anything....god breaks ur heart to make u wise for d next tym and strong enough to take a stand for urself, and failure is a sign dat u hv a long journey towards ur success....but of course a heartbreak doesnt meant dat u hv fail in luv in fact its a sign that u hv much more better options now available 😉 so enjoy it...nd failure doesnt means dat ur lyf stops there nd u r not worthy to get success infact its a sign dat if u put some more efforts dn definitely u will get success so strt putting efforts.... 

At last i would just lyk to say stay positive in ur lyf and accept everything either it is gud or bad in a positive way lyf will become more sorted...😊😊